Arriving at the intimate Studio Multimédia du Conservatoire at the Conservatoire de musique et d'art dramatique du Québec amidst a crowd of eager theatergoers, I encountered a less-than-welcoming reception from the ticket table staff. With a curt acknowledgment, I was informed of the imminent house opening. As I settled into my seat, I discovered my notebook ruined by rain, leaving me reliant on a dead laptop for note taking. Faced with this technological setback, I reluctantly returned to the ticket table for paper, met with disapproval from one of the attendants. Nevertheless, undeterred, I prepared to immerse myself in an evening of storytelling, enriched by the timeless allure of tap dance.
"By Our Side" unfolds with a raw honesty that only life’s profound experiences can inspire. Andrea Conway, a former Cirque Du Soleil acrobat, and her husband Wayne Doba, a seasoned tap dancer, lead the audience through a wife’s diagnosis of stage four kidney failure and the moments of love, hope, and perseverance that follow. This autobiographical piece triumphs in storytelling, blending vaudeville, tap dance, comedy, documentary, and song into a refreshingly simple yet deeply beautiful narrative.
"By Our Side" chronicles the events before and after Andrea’s diagnosis, capturing the stark realities of pre-surgery dialysis, intimacy despite the intrusion of a catheter, and the omnipresent specter of mortality. Yet, amidst the fear, stands the unwavering love and support from Wayne.
The performance balances gravity with romantic, slapstick, light-hearted entertainment. Doba’s tap dance numbers highlight his effortless rhythm and energy, contrasting poignantly with Andrea’s struggles. The vaudevillian elements add nostalgic charm, while the tap dance sequences testify to the couple’s resilience.
One of the most powerful scenes occurs the night before Andrea’s surgery. Wayne climbs into her hospital bed, holding her hand as they confront the terrifying possibility of death. His quiet reassurance, "I will never forget your face," resonates with profound tenderness and devotion, revealing the heart of "By Our Side" – a story of a couple’s shared love and endurance.
The call to action at the play’s end, urging organ donation, is a powerful conclusion. It transforms the personal story into a universal plea, leaving the audience moved and inspired.
"By Our Side" is skillfully crafted, with uncomplicated writing, snappy pacing, and a seamless blend of humor and heartbreak. The performances convey enduring love and partnership, reminding us that love is a shared journey. Andrea Conway and Wayne Doba have created a work of art that is as uplifting as it is heart-wrenching, a testament to the human spirit and the life-altering power of organ donation.
In my secluded corner of the theater, enveloped by the beauty and simplicity of the performance, I paused for a moment. It struck me profoundly how, in matters of love, the experiences of one resonate within the heart of the other.
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